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They Will Stalk You

gcA couple of weeks ago, I reblogged an article by John Lucas Hargis about agents and how they stalk us on the internet. Guess who else stalks us? Potential employers. I’ve been out of the work force for a few months, but I’m trying to find a new job so I can afford book covers and shiny things and sparkly shoes for my daughter. And food and stuff too.

Anyway, when looking for jobs today, I came across a posting where the employer asked applicants to forward a resume along with links to Facebook and Twitter. Now, it’s not exactly a secret that employers do some digging into a potential (or existing) employee’s background. I don’t have a problem with this. Like I tell my kids, if it’s on the internet, it’s on public display. Whether or not an employer can fire an existing employee for internet shenanigans is a legal issue I’m not qualified to comment on, but I can understand why a company would do a bit of cyber-stalking prior to interviewing a candidate for employment. After all, the wise job seeker researches the company they’re applying for before interviewing, right? So it stands to reason an employer would want to do the same.

Before I began writing, I was practically un-google-able. I didn’t have a Facebook or a Twitter. Flash forward three years and I’m everywhere. Tumblr, WordPress, Blogger, Google +, Twitter, Facebook, Linkedin… everywhere. I have to wonder what potential employers will think of me if they Google my name and see a million-jillion pages of stuff. Every interview I’ve posted on Authors to Watch, every blog post, every Tweet, every Facebook status update–it’s all out there on display. I’m okay with that. I don’t have anything to be embarrassed about.

But, what will people think? Will potential employers be impressed I’ve kept myself busy during the eight month gap on my resume? Or, will they be afraid to hire me? Maybe they’ll worry that my writerly pursuits will interfere with my ability to give one-hundred percent on the job. Or, maybe they’ll worry I’ll write a book about them if things go bad. There’s no point worrying about it. And, really, I’m not worried. It is what it is.

I’m sure there’s a job out there for me. Somewhere, there’s a boss who is looking for an employee who has a good working knowledge of social media. A boss who is willing to overlook the big old gap in my resume where I cast aside accounting and played with words instead. Somewhere, there’s a boss who will stalk my Facebook page and be impressed by the sheer number of Grumpy Cat pictures I’ve posted. Everyone likes Grumpy Cat, right?

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For Those Seeking Publication

I’ve been on a reblogging spree lately, but bear with me. It’s not my fault I keep finding wonderful articles to share with you. Today, I’d like to share this post by Amy Metz of A Blue Million Books: When Bad Publishers Happen to Good Writers

Please leave a comment for Amy. Share this article with a writer you love. Better yet, share it with everyone. It should be required reading for anyone seeking publication.

 

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First Things First

When I was at the dreaded day job, I often had so many things to do, I’d feel guilty for working on one task (even though it was essential) because I knew there were a million-billion other things I needed to do. I could never give my unwavering attention to one project because the other projects danced around in my head, taunting me. I thought when I quit the dreaded day job, I’d leave all that behind me.

Now I feel like that in regards to writing. Part (okay most) of this is my fault because I have several unfinished manuscripts. I also have completed manuscripts in need of editing. When I’m writing, I feel guilty for not marketing The Claiming Words, or for not editing, or for not writing something else. When I’m not writing I feel guilty for not writing. Then of course there’s the guilt I feel for spending so much time writing or doing writerly things when it brings in no income at all.

The fact is, my writing might never generate an income. If that’s the case, should I give up now and get another job? Should I put writing on the backburner once again and call it a hobby? Is there any point in finishing any of my incomplete manuscripts?

These are questions I’ve struggled with all week. It isn’t the first time I’ve batted these ideas around in my mind. I could list all my frustrations, but it would be pointless. We all suffer from setbacks and frustration. We all have moments of self-doubt. Sometimes I move from self-doubt to confidence and back all in the same week.

It’s time to finish an unfinished project. Nothing is more of a confidence-booster than writing the words “The End.” Though I’ve put off finishing the final book in The Claiming Words Series, I think now is the time to wrap it up and put it behind me. I can only do one thing at a time and right now, it’s time to finish this book.

How do you handle self-doubt? How do you prioritize? What do you do when you feel overwhelmed?

 

 

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Shenanigans

Oh, it’s been a week of shenanigans in the writing world. We’ve had plagiarism, temper tantrums, and retaliatory one-star ratings on books. When I first stumbled into the writing world with my unpublished, adverb-riddled manuscript in hand, I was struck by how generous and helpful most authors are. I’ve met authors who are willing to beta-read a four-hundred page manuscript or spend hours editing while asking for nothing in return. I’ve heard of a cover artist who offered a free book cover to a struggling writer. The entire industry–authors, editors, artists, even publishers–is made up of some amazingly wonderful people, many of whom I’m proud to call friends. But, in any industry there are bound to be a few bad eggs who muck it up for everyone else.

Shenanigans have been around forever, certainly long before I was old enough to read. Lately, there have been reports of sock-puppet reviews, five-star reviews for hire, and tantrum-throwing authors who go ballistic because a reader gave him or her a bad review. So, why am I choosing this week to address these age-old issues? Because this week it’s hitting close to home.

  • Plagiarism: I personally know authors who have been victims of plagiarism. When the thieves are overseas, it’s almost impossible to track down the culprit and sue for damages. A few days ago, I was notified that an ‘author’ who guest-posted on my Authors to Watch blog had been accused of plagiarism. After some research, I determined this was indeed true and removed the guest-post immediately. I was enraged to think my blog might have helped promote this plagiarist’s stolen book. I know how hard it is to write a book. To have someone steal your work would be disheartening and infuriating. The book in question has since been removed from Amazon, but how much money did this thief make before she was caught? And how many other plagiarists are out there?
  • Temper Tantrums: There isn’t a single book in this universe that will appeal to every reader. Authors better realize this before they publish, or they’re setting themselves up for a world of hurt and disappointment. I’ve seen some monumental tantrums this week from authors who feel like their books have been unfairly judged and that the reviews are too harsh. I’ve seen fights between readers and authors on Amazon and Goodreads forum threads. I’ve seen authors come unglued and hurl insults at readers. I understand how badly it hurts when someone doesn’t like your book. You know what hurts the most? Realizing there’s a nugget of truth in that unsavory review. As authors, we have to push past the hurt and use those critical reviews to help us grow as writers.
  • Retaliatory Reviews: A couple of author friends left critical reviews for a book which shall remain unnamed. In retaliation, the author of the unnamed book left one-star Goodreads ratings on the authors’ books. How do I know this was a retaliatory move and not a legitimate rating? Well, one of the books hasn’t been released. The author set up the book on Goodreads to prepare for the pending release, so there’s no way the angry-author could have read the book. It was a revenge-rating. That rating might have made the angry-author feel better, but it won’t make her book any better. As an author, what’s the best use of your time: Stalking and retaliating against other authors, or working to improve your craft?

Fortunately, most of the authors I’ve met either online or in person are fantastic, honest, generous, talented, stupendous people. Despite all the shenanigans from people wearing (or stealing) author hats, I’m still proud to call myself an author. I won’t let the plagiarists, the tantrum-throwers, or the vindictive reviewers ruin the world of indie publishing for the rest of us. I’m going to stand up for what’s right, stand by my fellow hard-working authors, and report suspected plagiarism to Amazon. I’m going to handle unfavorable reviews with as much grace as I can muster. And, I’m going to continue to hold indie authors to high standards, reviewing books as they deserve to be reviewed and expecting indie authors to publish high-quality, well-edited books. I’m going to say no to shenanigans!

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Pitfalls of Perfection

Perfectionism is often a curse, especially when it comes to publication. The quest for perfection can prevent us from sending that query letter or hitting the publish button on Amazon. It can leave us trapped in a vicious cycle of edits and rewrites. We want our work to be the best it can be, but when do we decide to let our manuscript move on to the next step in the publication process? Often fear of failure presents itself under the guise of perfection and when we tell ourselves we don’t want to publish until our work is flawless, what we really mean is that we’re afraid our work won’t measure up–that we won’t measure up.

How do we know when our manuscript is ready to query or publish? Many authors, publishers, or writing coaches can offer suggestions, but deciding to publish is a highly personal decision.

When I first began writing, I wanted to hurl my first draft out to agents the moment I finished typing “The End.” After rejections, suggestions from critique partners, and the experience I’ve gained, I’m a bit more hesitant when it comes to letting my baby leave the nest. Maybe too hesitant. I tend to hold on to manuscripts forever and I’ve concocted an elaborate editing/rewrite ritual. With each manuscript, the editing process lasts longer and becomes more elaborate. At the rate I’m going, the manuscript I finished in December won’t be ready for publication until 2026. Yeah, it’s starting to get out of hand.

Writers, how do you determine a manuscript is ready to query or publish? What is your editing process?

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I ♥ Books Valentine Blog Hop

It’s almost Valentines Day, a holiday dedicated to love. If you’re newly divorced or on the heels of a bad break-up, Valentines Day can often be a reminder of what you lost or what you’re longing for. If you’ve been settled in a relationship for a long time, Valentines Day might just be an ordinary day–working, taking kids to school, tackling that growing mound of laundry. But, fear not! Valentines Day is for everyone. You can still feel that spark. You can still fall in love. All you need is an active imagination and a good book.

Even though I’ve been married for a long time, I still have the pleasure of falling in love on a regular basis. While no one could replace my husband in my heart, when I dive into a good book, I have an opportunity to fall in love with a dark, enigmatic romantic hero. Just recently, I fell in love with Mishal, a character from Book One of the Redhaven Saga by Victoria Barrow. Be sure to buy a copy when it releases this spring! You’ll fall in love too.

When writing, I often fall in love with my own romantic heroes. It might sound crazy to fall in love with a character I created from my own imagination, but I’ve heard other authors say the same thing. So, either we’re all crazy or none of us are. Okay, so we’re all a little off. Hey, you have to be a little off your rocker to be a writer!

Today, I’m going to share an excerpt from Demon Fire, which is the sequel to The Claiming Words and is scheduled to be released this Summer.

“It’s crowded in here,” Bryce whispered in my ear. “How about breaking the no kissing in the training room rule?” He nuzzled my earlobe and my resolve slipped away.

“It was more of a guideline than a rule,” I whispered back. “Let’s go.” I was ashamed at myself for how easily I gave into him. I had no willpower where Bryce was concerned.

When we entered the training room, Bryce pushed me up against the wall and kissed me until I was dizzy. My breath came in shallow gasps and his body pressing against me was the only thing that kept me upright.

“Oh, God, Alisa,” he groaned in my ear. “I have no control around you anymore. It’s almost dangerous for me to be alone with you.” He trailed kisses along my throat, and then lower. With a moan, he pulled away from me and placed both hands on the back of his head as if trying to hold it onto his shoulders. I knew the feeling; my head didn’t feel like it was on quite straight when I was with Bryce. It sure wasn’t in charge of the rest of me.

He shook his head. “Let’s go upstairs and watch TV with my parents, otherwise I won’t be responsible for my actions.” Bryce shook slightly as he led me up the stairs.

 

Please be sure to check out these wonderful authors on the Valentine Blog Hop!


Now, for a lovely song…

 

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Fun Friday Roundup

It’s been a wild and eventful week. Let’s see…we bid 2012 farewell and heralded in 2013. Happy New Year everyone! Some of us made our New Year’s Resolutions…some of us did not.

I spent the better part of Wednesday moving my blog from Blogger to WordPress. Why? Because I spent hours and hours every week trying to make my Blogger blog look perfect (or at least satisfactory), but it never did. Maybe it’s because there were too many customizable options and I was like a kid in a candy shop, oogling at all the pretty colors. *Drool* Or, maybe it’s because I just like to create drama and upheaval in my life. I don’t know. But here the thing: even though I moved my domain, it didn’t work out quite right because WordPress uses a naked domain. Don’t ask me what all that means because I don’t completely understand (which is why I was on the phone with Go Daddy tech support for ten minutes). Anywho… some of my followers might not find me right away, which is bad. So, I’ll have to work extra hard to find my peeps and lure them back to the dark side.

Enough about my blogging issues…let’s move on to bigger and more interesting things.

First off, we had fun on “the other blog.” On Authors to Watch (my blog where we have interviews with cool, fun, awesome authors), I talked to Susana Ellis about her new novella. If you’re interested in regency romance, you might want to pop over there and read about it. There’s an excerpt and a giveaway!!! In other news, I visited with A.R. Silverberry on his beautiful website. He also stopped by Authors to Watch to talk about his own book, Wyndano’s Cloak.

I didn’t get a lot of reading done, though I bought a lot of books for the new Kindle Fire I got for Christmas. The first books I bought were Kristen Lamb’s social media books for writers. I’ve already finished Are You There Blog? It’s Me, Writer. I totally recommend this book to anyone who is writing, has written, or has ever thought about writing a book. I’m tearing through her other book right now: We Are Not Alone: The Writer’s Guide to Social Media. I might need to put it aside for a day or two so I can read Gone Girl because I have to finish it before book club on Sunday. I’ll let you all know how that book goes and if I love it. I think I will.

Fun Friday Links:

Slush Pile Hell…Has anyone heard of this? Does anyone enjoy this blog as much as I do? Even if you’re not a writer or have never written a query, you’ll enjoy reading about this literary  agent and the wacky query letters he’s received.

Single Dad Laughing…I stumbled across this blog thanks to a FaceBook friend. I’m not a dad, or a single parent, but I do like to laugh, so I’ve enjoyed this blog quite a bit. Don’t let the name fool you—it isn’t all about parenting. It’s about life and laughter and fun. Check it out!

Don’t Be In a Hurry to Publish… Here’s some food for thought from Marj McRae, talented author and blogger extraordinaire.

Fun Friday Video:

Yes, I know this video is horrible and inappropriate, but it’s hilariously funny too. My fourteen-year-old daughter introduced me to it.

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New Year’s Writing Resolutions

I’ve never been a fan of New Year’s Resolutions. Probably because I’m not very good at sticking with them. Maybe some of you are like me: in the past we’ve vowed to lose every ounce of excess weight, work out three hours a day seven days a week, keep a spotlessly clean house, stay caught up on laundry, go to church every Sunday, get a doctorate in Physics, become queen of the world…and on and on. We’ve made so many over-the-top resolutions we couldn’t even hope to attain, that we’ve become burned out on New Year’s Resolutions altogether.

Personally, I’ve discovered my best resolutions have been ones I’ve made on a Wednesday, mid-week, halfway through October. Or, Tuesday afternoon sitting in the school parking lot waiting to pick up my kids. Resolutions can be made any time. Anywhere. They can be short-term, long-term, or life-long. It doesn’t matter. What matters is this: our resolutions must be something we can achieve and we have to have a plan we can stick to in order to achieve them.

I made my 2013 Writing Resolutions a while ago. It was something I considered at great length. While my resolutions may not work for everyone, they work for me.

My 2013 Writing Resolutions:

  1. Finish the first draft of one novel during the year. That’s it. Just one. In 2011, I wrote 3. Maybe I can do it again in 2013. Who knows? With all the trials and tribulations of 2012, I managed to write only one. And, I’m proud of myself for it. Who knows what challenges 2013 might bring? I know I can finish one book. It might take a month, or it might take all year. The important thing is–I’m going to do it.
  2. Finish the first draft of one of my works-in-progress. I haven’t decided which one. But of the four works in progress I currently have, I’m going to finish one.
  3. Clean up a completed first draft enough to bring it to submission level. I have two completed manuscripts that need a lot of help before they can be considered fit for human eyes to read. A lot of help. I need to work on edits/rewrites on at least one of these.
  4. Blog three times a week. Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. No ifs, ands, or buts.

Notice how only one of the above goals are time/quantity specific? While the other goals specify that I must only complete them by the end of the year, the blogging goal is three times a week. No less. Why did I do this? Because I can commit to blogging three times a week. I can commit a few minutes or an hour three days a week in order to keep my blog up to date.

For goals one through three, I could have given myself a specific daily word count. If I get too lazy, I might have to do this for a while in order to get myself on track. But, if I start off at the beginning of January telling myself that I MUST write two-thousand words every single day, what’s going to happen when everyone in the house gets the flu, or I have to take the kids to ten zillion different doctor appointments, or we get snowed in, or (makes sign of the cross to ward off evil) my laptop crashes? How am I going to feel on February first if I’ve only managed to reach my word count three days during the previous month? Yep. I’m going to feel like a loser. I’m going to tell myself I can’t reach my goals. And, I’m going to give up.

Not exactly the tone we want to set for the whole year is it?

Before you sit down to make your 2013 Writing Resolutions, you must know yourself as a writer. What has worked for you in the past? Do you write intuitively, or are you a plotter? Do you need a strict word count to  stay on track, or do you need to cut yourself some slack in order to be creative? We all do things differently. What works for one writer might not work for you, so give yourself a few goals you can easily achieve even if the world implodes around you. And, then give yourself a smaller goal that pushes you a little. You’ve got to challenge yourself in order to grow.

If you’re a new writer, you might not know what works yet. You might have to adjust or change goals as you go. And, that’s okay. Just don’t give up.

So, what are your goals? What do you plan to achieve in 2013? Leave a comment and share your Writing Resolutions with us!

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It’s Been A While

Wow, I just stopped by my blog to see how long it had been since I posted something and I was shocked to discover it’s been nearly a month! My only excuse for this serious lapse in blogging is that I tend to get very single-minded when I’m writing. I finished writing another YA paranormal book just a few days before Christmas. Yippee!

I’m going to try to get back on track in the New Year and keep up with this blog, but if fall behind again, it isn’t because I gave up on blogging, or dropped off the face of the earth. It’s probably because I’ve been writing something, or editing something, or because I’m spending time on the ‘other blog.’

If you got a new Kindle for the holidays (like me!), or if you’re looking for something to read, please stop by my ‘other blog’ and check out some of the books I’ve reviewed or the authors I’ve interviewed. I visit with a wide variety of authors, so there’s something for everyone:

http://www.authorstowatch.triciadrammeh.com/

As 2012 draws to a close, stay safe, stay warm, and stay happy!

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How To Be A Writer

Aspiring writers often wonder, “How can I be a writer? What do I have to do? Do I have to have a degree or take a class?” Well, I’ve got the answer and it might not be what you expect:

WRITE.

That’s it. If you write, if you express yourself by using words, if you string those words together to create something you love, you are a Writer. It can be a short story, a novel, or poetry. You can type on a laptop or write by hand on the back of a grocery list. Just write.

My friend and fellow author, Kay Kauffman says it best in this post: The Writer’s Identity. I’ve returned to this post time and again. Not because I’m a creepy stalker, but because it gives me confidence and helps me re-focus my efforts as a Writer. When I’m riddled with self-doubt, when I’m wondering if I’ll ever complete another novel, when I’m struggling with my identity, I visit Kay’s blog and everything is okay.

You don’t have to be a published author to be a Writer. You don’t have to have an agent, a website, or even a blog. If your novel isn’t finished yet, that’s okay. You’re still a Writer. Why? Because you write.

Over the past few weeks, I’ve been working on a new novel. What are you writing?

* Leave a comment and tell me about your writing projects. If you want to leave me a link to your website or blog, that’s great. Or, you can leave me a poem, joke, or an excerpt from something you’ve written. Or you can just say, “My name is _____ and I’m a Writer.”

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